Finding Your Soulmate


ARE YOU SEARCHING FOR YOUR SOULMATE? If you are, realize that very few have succeeded in that noble quest. Most settle for a life of compromise with a life partner. For those who believe they have, then congratulations are due. They are fortunate souls indeed. So why is it so difficult to find your perfect partner?

Let’s take a closer look at the dilemma from the standpoint of ‘Oneness’- the notion that in reality we are ‘All One’ as was debated in Are You A ‘Oneness’ Sceptic. If we are all One then how can we reach out for a soulmate?

Like reaching out for God that we are told is everywhere and in everything, wouldn’t reaching out for your soulmate also be a contradiction in terms? Wouldn’t the belief that your soulmate was out there somewhere keep you hopelessly lost in the illusion of separation – you here and your soulmate somewhere out there?

If Oneness is a reality, then there can’t be any-One else. Your soulmate is already here in spirit – deep within you – hidden behind the emotions of self disapproval and negativity. You and your soulmate are the Yin and Yang of the essential you that you are unknowingly sharing eternity with.

There is no separate other waiting lovingly in the wings. The only way you can find your soulmate is to find yourself! To find yourself you must learn to love yourself unconditionally. To forgive yourself completely for all the imagined sins, mistakes and misgivings that you constantly blame yourself for.

Be your own best friend and you will have a friend for life.~ Harold Becker

Every person that is in your life, past, present and future, is there for a purpose. You manifested them to help you and teach you the lessons that you need to learn. If you haven’t found your soulmate thus far then you are not ready to learn to unconditionally love and accept yourself.

Once you can fully accept and approve of yourself unconditionally, then and only then, will you manifest your perfect soulmate into your physical life experience – whatever lifetime that may be…

Dan’s Quote: “Your Soul Mate is always with you in Spirit…
______________With love you can learn to make it physical.”


About Dan Brand

Blog writer and author of Mind WorX-An Inside Story, a philosophical look into life's mysteries.

Posted on April 17, 2015, in RefleXions and tagged , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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